2015-08-29 綁繩班之我見

上完堂第一個感覺係……覺得如果對綁繩有興趣嘅人，真的要多練習，先能夠做到熟能生巧、運籌帷幄。（利申：我係喜歡被綁，從用家方向出發）

早幾天知道有綁繩學習班，老師係subay，看過她的照片，很吸引！雖然我係喜歡被綁，但放假有時間，本住觀摩、增廣見聞嘅心態，就去報名上課去。

起初老師由淺開始教單柱綁、雙柱綁，我還可以應付，但到再進一步有兩個後手綁的，我已經應付不了，所以就協助其他同學，被練習了～

時間飛快的過，離開我預計的時間亦差不多，所以同老師講會離開，老師可能見我被練習多，所以問我想被她綁嘛？我只是怕羞的說聲好，就這樣開始了，奇妙之旅～

老師開頭說，只是綁上半身，後來說不如半吊，好嘛？當半吊時再問，全吊好嗎？我除了好，已說不到其他了～

我真心佩服老師，行雲流水般快速地用三條繩完成上半身，沒有多餘動作，那拘束感是堅實的、沒鬆動的；半吊時那爽快的動作，令不適嘅感覺盡量降低；決定全吊時，那決斷力要幾多繩、幾多掛勾、空間要幾大，一一吩咐朋友協助準備，十分全面，連被綁者嘅身體情況亦不時留意，我有留意老師不時摸我手仔、問我大腿感覺哦。

被吊時心情會有不安，亦有點不好意思，因為同學們圍着看，真的有點尷尷尬尬；當手麻痺時，會感覺不適感，到左腳被吊起時，左大腿受力位置分散了上半身的注意力，所以又不覺得有大問題，到右腳被吊起時最不安，因為全身已被吊起…失。去。控。制。了～

全吊起後，雙腳重心比較高，老師話咁樣力會多啲喺對腳，上身會輕鬆一點～ 吊起慢慢的轉，同學們好像比我更興奮，感覺更尷尬，有同學還問要嘗試被打麼？隨後因為要影相，所以用布蒙眼，這才是最大的不安，完全沒有方向感、無時間感、體感只覺得在轉、好像四周都有人在看，不安不安還是不安～

真心的又要再讚一讚老師，老師應該注意到我的不安（利申，個人覺得無流露出不安，還有微笑，不過同學們看到是什麼又是另一回事，哈哈），不斷令我知道佢在我身邊、有注意我手、腳、身體情況，總括來說，老師令我有信心、完全信任老師、交出身心被綁，安全感即刻返晒嚟～

徘徊喺痛苦與快樂之間，好快又到了解繩的時間，我亦有注意到老師的手法很快速，相信綁繩開始時已有留意解放時要怎處理，沒有要我用太耐時間單一負重下，就已完成雙腳解繩，期間亦都有不斷留意手、腳嘅反應，詢問有沒有問題、狀況出現，這點很窩心哦～

平時，睇AV多，未必感受到綁師嗰份行雲流水嘅行動力、安全感、以及被綁者對綁師嘅信任，但當成為被綁者時，就會真的留意到上述三點的重要性！多謝Subay老師今次嘅奇妙之旅～

EVA 福音戰士 Cosplay Catsuit

今天放了這張相在forum, FB 及這裡，瀏覽率高漲。

今天放了這張相在forum, FB 及這裡，瀏覽率高漲。

Cosplay 的user 是一個smart 又手巧的designer ，很玩得，有時坐下來兩個人談話時，覺得他很有哲理，或者講，很有禪味。

之前的blog 好像有提到他駕駛時不搶線，會讓巴士。

因為他說巴士內佰幾人，一讓就可讓那麼多人......

一次他問：戒煙了沒? 

我說：想。

他說：要戒的話，其實不須講，已經做了。

想來也是，我點頭。

因為之前我也沒有講，就戒了2年。

只是一個人工作時，焦慮來了，又重新抽了起來。

放這張相在這裡時，收到一個PM 說： I hope I am this rubber dogie.

嘿嘿.......套回上一句話：要的話不必講，你也已經做了。

Rope Art 緊縛的藝術

繩有很多種。

個人最喜歡的是棉繩。

講究耐性的是麻繩，但麻繩crossover latex 的話，其實不太完美。

因為麻繩的繩屑容易留在 latex 上。

最不喜歡是尼龍繩，到了不屑一顧的程度。

因為尼龍繩磨擦得多或老化後，崩開的部份接觸身體時，容易刺到身體或勾爛絲襪。

欣賞Rope art 的角度是：看到繩陷進身體，令身體看上去更豐滿的感覺。

如圖，對我來說就是豐腴，豐腴就是美，美就是好。

Latex 使用須知 (常識)

含有油，脂及溶劑的潤滑劑都有機會令你的Latex 膠片受毀。

使用前，請看清楚潤滑劑的產品說明再購買。

陽光，熱度，高UV 都會令Latex 膠片變色。

所以建議在不穿 Latex Catsuit 時，用一個保鮮袋包裝好已撒了爽身粉的膠衣。

不要直接放置在陽光下或高溫的地方。

Latex 和銅是不能放在一起的，這一點要小心。

穿 Latex 膠衣前最好洗手，還有小心指甲太尖會刺破膠衣喔。

關於Latex 尺寸表，到現在LBG都是用這一款。

但#2 (上半身)這個地方原來要是稍改為(上身周長)，做latex suit 準繩度更高。

Users自己愈能夠提供確實的尺寸，愈方便tailor 做得貼身。

但這裡有一點要講明，客人提供的尺寸，比如：20cm ，tailor 不會擅自改為擴大或縮小。

因此，不要覺得說我腰圍24cm, 為什麼廠方不會稍為減1-2cm 緊一點 ? ......不會的。

因為tailor 都要保障他們自己，萬一改了，又有麻煩人發飆問為什麼要擅自改動他們的尺寸。

就是這樣而已。

有人天生對Latex 敏感的嗎？ 

請留意以下事項，LBG Company 對又要敏感又要穿膠衣的人士是不負責的。

簡單說要清洗膠衣的話，請用一盆乾淨的清水浸洗便行了，不必加肥皂或洗衣粉。

然後自然涼乾後收藏，不要拿去乾洗或使用燙斗喔。

Latex 上的普通拉鍊

一般latex tailor 選用的是YKK 拉鍊，有時見一些公司標明用YKK，用了會飛嗎?

 就算是普通其他牌子也一樣可以用，我其實不太在意拉鍊的品牌，品質才比較重要。

泛拉鍊後面都會再加一層所謂的 "檔布"，以防拉鍊磨擦，劃傷皮膚。

尤其是男式開檔部位，嘻嘻......不加的話，怕會有血案。

三種不同素材的分別 (基本常識)

三種不同素材的分別

關於Latex ，Lycra，P.V.C，三者的分別如下表。

P.V.C 是三者之中最沒有彈性的，但可以縫合。

Lycra 便是泳衣及單車衫的材質，透氣，彈性之好可想而知，也可以縫合。

Latex 的彈性很強，但完全不透氣，看model 們穿完倒出來或滴出來的汗水就知道了。

Latex 完全不可以縫合，要靠黏合，素材與氣球同，所以會有一股氣球的膠味。

過去的腳步

過去的腳步

LBG 主要的業務是：Latex Products OEM, Design Service, Buyer Label Offered 

由2009年一個人一個blog寫起，至今快5年了。

辛酸很多，但好像也過了，開心更多，因為在這裡認識了很多Users和朋友。

過去參加過的展覽會有：2012年澳門成人展  以及  2013年的香港時裝展

 

LBG 的聯絡電郵 : chaming1999@hotmail.com  / smood718@yahoo.com.hk 

LBG 的雅虎 名稱 : smood718 

LBG Facebook Fan page : www.facebook.com/LatexBabyGirl

PS:大家喜歡的可以直接找她入貨呀XD 她樂意為大家選擇合適的膠衣呀^^

latex 上的隱形拉鍊

latex 上的隱形拉鍊

隱形拉鍊因較普通拉鍊細幼，所以只能是一個zipper head ，不能另加拉鍊頭的。

另外，latex 是不能縫合的，所以細心留意的話，會發現連在latex上的拉鍊頭尾都有鍋釘扣

住。

關於Silicone Oil

Picture shown ： LBG-AC002 (HK55)  is latex shining spray, mainly uses on latex sheet surface。

有Users 問：

在latex 與身體之間除了用爽身粉之外，還有沒有其他的可以使用? (更加容易穿上latex catsuit )

回答：

有。silicone oil 或 KY。

注意：* 液體是不能郵寄的，不論本地或海外*

chaming Latex Baby Girl ( LBG ) 大家快快感受一下膠衣文化

獲得她本人的授權轉貼拉XD


喜歡膠衣的朋友一定認識她XD


膠衣又是一大課題. 是一個我沒有接觸的大項目.
希望大家會喜歡上膠衣文化 ^^///

非常多色彩,是否大家沒想像過呢?

又有活動了 ~ 大家快快把握機會!!!

8月29日（六）緊縛教學及示範（兩班，一大一小）

我將會8月29日舉辦教學班，教學班分成兩段時間，前部份是大班教學，後部份是小班教學（只限3人，專注教3繩後手縛及半吊縛）。

第一部分－大班教學 （日式一繩技術）

日期： 2015年8月29日（星期日）

時間：下午1:30時至4:30時

地點：葵興（私人場地）（地址會傳給出席者，請將地址保密）

費用：200元

衣著：舒適便服

名額：15人（先到先得）

程度：新手至中等

場地會提供2個安全吊鈎，請自備繩及安全剪刀（創傷剪）

活動內容（暫定）：

1500-1515       介紹及緊縛基本知識

1515-1530       教學1: 單柱縛及雙柱縛（重溫，主要協助新手）

1530-1550       教學2: 一繩後手胸縛

1550-1610       教學3: 一繩後手直手縛

1610-1630       教學4: 一繩槍手縛

1630-1650       教學5: 一繩髮縛

1650-1710       教學6: 一繩雙腳直縛

1710-1730       教學7: 自縛雙繩龜甲縛

1730-1800       示範／體驗／分享／練習

（以上的時間表可能會被調整，視乎當日教學進度）

第二部分－小班教學（3繩後手縛及簡單半吊縛）

日期： 2015年8月29日（星期日）

時間：下午4:30時至6:30時

地點：葵興（私人場地）（地址會傳給出席者，請將地址保密）

費用：500元 （包括自己帶來繩模的費用共兩人、吊扣、吊圈等）

衣著：舒適便服

名額：3人（請自己帶繩模／朋友）（先到先得）

程度：新手至中等

活動內容：

這小班教學主要想專注教3繩後手縛，如何做一個適合做安全吊縛的後手縛，並會教導如何做簡單半吊縛。因為教學溶入吊縛，只可以小班教學，以確保我能照顧每位參加者。請帶備6條麻繩（如有）及創傷剪。如沒有足夠繩，我可以借出我的麻繩。

規則

1. 安全為上

請帶急救用的剪刀以便不時之需。

不可以有酒精／毒品。

如果你不熟悉吊縛，請勿自行嘗試。

2. 互相尊重及必須得到別人同意

尊重其他出席者，如果你想借用其他人的物品，請必須得對方同意。

如果你想觀看，請保持距離，並不要隨意摸其他人。

3. 只是可以做緊縛的活動

這是個緊縛的聚會，並不是一個課程或工作坊或派對，所以請尊重活動，只是練習緊縛及交流，並不可以進行其他調教。

4. 攝影

為了保護大家的私隱，未得主辦人的准許，場內不可以拍攝。如要用電話，請到場外。

我有權利請任何犯規的朋友離開場地，並以後不再邀請他們。

報名方式：

如果有興趣，請wechat我(fishie_ay)，寫上名字及聯絡方式，收到訊息後而且還有名額我會聯絡你，費用要先傳到銀行。

名額有限，先到先得，請盡快報名。

subaykinbaku.blogspot.hk <~~~~~ GOGOGOGO

這個網頁上的文章和圖片.不是完全被轉貼XD
大家要看片?要看打了格的圖片?
便直接去原網址欣賞XD  ~


再一次感謝.
SUBAY
願意給我轉貼她的文章^^/

A Letter to Daddy :)

A Letter to Daddy :)

Daddy,

We haven't know each other for long but I feel so connected to you already. It's very rare that I feel like I can trust someone and be honest with someone - and I am really happy to have found you.

I enjoyed every moment with you. I don't just see it as play. I love you as a friend. I respect you as my mentor. I treasure and serve you as my Dominant. I might not be the best girl in the world but I would do the best within my ability to make you happy - because making you happy makes me really happy.

Thank you so much for sacrificing so much for me. I know that you are busy and you have a lot of commitments in life - yet you do so much for this silly fishie and care so much for me.

Thank you Daddy :)

Fishieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

酒吧派對

Play Munch 酒吧派對 (22 April 2015)

I have been really busy but I finally had the chance to take a break and I had some kinky fun tonight at a play munch which's held in a bar (closed curtains). I put on my kimono and tied several people - some of them were really eager to be tied by me as they had never been tied before. I tied a guy blindfolded - this time apart from a gote, I did some ties on his legs, also with a blindfold and it's a really good practice experience for me. I also tied several other people - something special to recap:

I tied S. She's not very flexible - which's fine. I hate it when people say that in order to be a good rope bottom, you need to be fit/skinny/small/flexible. I don't agree with it - as long as that person has a passion for ropes, and is eager to be in my ropes, I am happy to tie him/her (or other gender). I have tied people of all sizes and flexibility - when you tie, you don't just tie a gote on flexible people who can do a gote position. You tie *the person*. You do different ties to suit that person. We are all different and it's where the beauty truly lies. I tied S in a modified gote position and it's really fun to be able to improvise - I did a lot of improvisation today.

I also tied N. He's sadomasochistic, sometimes Dominant. It's funny because I am submissive. But in our rope scene, I am the one tying and it seems that our roles are switched. I tied a teppou with finger ties on him, a futomono and opened his legs wide and tied his legs to his back - basically he's completely restrained. We then had some more fun - I started by dripping candle wax on him - so as to get his skill more sensitive. Then I used the pinwheel on him - on his inner thigh and the bottom of his feet. It's excruciating for him as it's super sensitive. When he thought it's bad enough - I pulled out the sadistick and started working on his inner thigh and bottom of his feet. At the end of our scene, I said I would give him 20 more by the sadistick, and I ended up stopping at 19 and repeating 19-19-19-19-19 for like forever. I was carefully reading his emotions, his reactions, his facial expressions - to push him, to feel him, to see how much further I can go with him. It's a very exciting moment for me and I know that he would curse me for a few days (there are bruises on his inner thigh - it hurt quite a bit)

It's a really fun night and I really enjoyed introducing several newbies to ropes!

用繩感染大家 (2)

I also tried something new - tying blindfolded. It's a brand new experience and really fun - I relied on all my senses to tie - to explore the body - to feel the ropes. I found so much tranquility in it.


Rope 緊縛者: subay
Model 被綁者: anonymous

I might write more later when I have time but just want to upload a few pictures.

用繩感染大家 (4月11-12週末）

Spreading my passion for ropes 用繩感染大家 (4月11-12週末）

I tied quite a lot this weekend. Several people appro

ached me. They were mainly newbies and never had any shibari experience so this weekend, I spent some time to introduce some people to ropes - and I also treated it as a learning experience (tying people of different body shape and gender)


Rope 緊縛者: subay
Model 被綁者: gringoire

Ropey Easter Weekend 復活節與緊縛 :)

Happy Easter everyone :)

First, apologies if I haven't replied to your messages on Fetlife/HKBDSMC/Facebook/Gmail etc. I have been super busy (haven't been around a laptop for around 1-2 weeks now) as I have been having some kinky fun :D



Midnight Ropes with @luis1786

@Luis1786 and I met on Fetlife. We exchanged several messages and he wanted to practice tying with me. I am often willing to be the practice bottom. Although I am not super bendy flexible, I think one thing good about practising on me is that I can give very constructive feedback and I enjoy communication. As I have a bit of rope experience as a rope top, I can often tell him/her concretely where the problem is (tension/wrap placement/wrong fiction etc)

So we met for a few times to have some rope fun. He's not the most experienced at ropes. I remember myself saying that I would only enjoy being tied by experienced rope tops. But actually - not always. I had such a good time being tied by him. I could see/feel/sense/hear a lot of mistakes - but I decided to stay silent and let the ropes caress me. The thing is - it's not really about the ropes - he might be slow, he might make mistakes, do the wrong knot, go to high/low - yet more important is how he uses his ropes to caress me, to torture me, to give me feelings, to build a connection. He's very good at controlling a rope bottom and it's something I definitely want to learn from him. While he takes his time to tie, he always holds my hair tight to control my movement - to force me to my kneels, to push me down, to do whatever he wishes me to do. I was such a happy girl enjoying the happy moments.

I guess most people now focus too much on the technical side of kinbaku - yes, being safe is important, and doing the tie right etc is definitely good - but in kinbaku, we don't tie objects, we tie persons - persons with feelings. Kinbaku is almost like sex - it's intimate, you do it with people you trust and love.

And our rope session slowly developed into something else...some more play...:P (shhhhh)

Rope Intensive with @Nuidetokyo

As @Nuitdetokyo is staying in Hong Kong for Easter, I have decided to go bug him again :P We talked about a rope intensive as I am going to join a kinbaku study group in Tokyo in late June with some rope masters including Osada Steve, Yukimura Haruki and Nawashi Kanna. So to prepare for my first official/formal rope education in Japan, I thought it would be good to learn from @Nuitdetokyo as he's been tying in Japan for 10 years.

We mainly focused on the takate-kote and we looked at many important details. Every time someone goes to Japan, it's very likely that he will be asked to tie a takate-kote - it's just a very good way to see how a person ties and his experience and his skills. I spent a lot of time practising the tension of my ropes - it's a bit of a challenge for me. I usually don't tie super tight due to my models preference but in the session, I had to learn to increase the tension of my ropes so it took me a bit of time to adjust to it. Another challenge is the speed. I had to do a 3-rope takate kote in 4.5 minutes and so far my record is around 5.5 minutes.

That being said - to prepare for my rope education, I am now looking for more practice bottoms, preferably girls (I tie people of all genders, but as in Japan, the models are usually female, so I have to practice tying girls first) :D Give me a shout if interested!

Just a picture of a takate kote done in 5.5 minutes :P Its not perfect...but...well it's my first time tying so fast!


Photoshoot with two models

@Nuitdetokyo has been working on his portfolio and he wants to do some photoshoots with Hong Kong as the theme. I have been helping him with models and photographers (as there are quite a few photographers who contact me on Facebook). So we did some simple photoshoots to get to know the models.

There isn't a lot to say about the photoshoot but there's one thing special - we worked with a girl model. She's completely new to shibari and we did a simple side suspension (yoko zuri). She asked us to let her down almost immediately as she's not used to the feeling of suspension. Interestingly, the second time we did it, again a side suspension, after taking the pics, she asked to stay in the air for longer. It's really interesting to see a newbie explore shibari and her reactions :P

We are still looking for professional/semi-professional models who are willing to be tied.
1. Nudity (frontal or complete) with some explicitness (strictly no sex)
2. Girls (prefer girls with boooooobs!)
3. Paid photoshoot (market price)
4. Rope experience preferred
5. Fetish/sexy wardrobe welcome
6. No commercial use - just for an online portfolio
7. Body size/shape/nationality/ink etc flexible

Send me a message if interested!

Email: subay.annie.hk@gmail.com
Facebook: Subay Kinbaku
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Got tied during Easter - crotch rope - crotch rope attached to the suspension point - ouch. 

That's all I wanna say :P haha.

緊縛聚會分享及相片 Rope Gathering Afterthoughts and Pictures (2 April)

緊縛聚會分享及相片 Rope Gathering Afterthoughts and Pictures (2 April)

This is the first time that I invite kinksters from both Fetlife and HKBDSMC (the local Cantonese group) to join my rope social. To be honest, I was a bit skeptical because the cultures are really different and there's also the problem of language barrier but I decided to just go ahead because I hope that my rope gatherings can be open to more people - as long as they love ropes - and we can always connect and communicate with ropes.

Organising this event required quite a bit of effort - from negotiating with the venue owner, the event photographer, to sending out invitations, answering all the enquiries, processing all the applications (as I have a vouching policy to protect all attendees and the venue), sending out confirmations and finally preparing materials for the gathering. First, a big shout to @fufu for being my lovely assistant (or even co-organizer) now. Thank you for helping me out and solving all the problems with me, and of course giving me feedback. 

On 2 April, @fufu, @milllkybunny and I met the event photographer, @Steve, to discuss details of the gathering. We invited an event photographer (who also loves ropes) because from our experience, there will be a lot of action shots and we want to be able to capture the beautiful moments for all the attendees. As @Steve didn't have much experience in this area so we briefed him a bit before the event. Then together with @Nai, we shopped for some snacks and drinks and headed for the venue.

Previously, my rope gatherings were all pretty casual - people came whenever they wanted and we didn't really have much to prepare or set up but as there were more people coming this time and I wanted to make the event more structured, we did more - laying out all the ropes and other stuff (thanks to @大人for lending out his jute ropes), preparing for snacks and drinks, preparing for the suspension point etc. This time, I also did a bulk purchase for safety shears (EMT shears used to cut ropes in emergent situations - basic bondage safety). At 8pm, people start to arrive!

We had around 30 people for the rope gathering this time - I planned to have around 20-25 people originally but there were a lot of people who wanted to come and I didn't want to turn down SO MANY people, so I decided to extend the quota a bit - so 30 from both Fetlife and HKBDSMC.

@fufu and I started by doing a brief introduction on the gathering's structure and important rules to protect everyone. After some self introduction, @Nuitdetokyo was very kind to kick off the rope gathering by showing Akechi Denki's Takate Kote. 

今次的緊縛聚會是我第一次邀請Fetlife和HKBDSMC兩面的朋友參加。老實說，一開始我也有很多的顧慮，始終大家的BDSM文化不同，加上有語言上的障礙，但我最後決定繼續邀請兩面朋友，希望大家有平台練習、交流，學習－最重要的還是對緊縛的熱誠。

籌辦活動是需要很多工夫的（我只是義務做籌辦，加上我本身自己比較忙碌），由聯絡場地、攝影師到邀請朋友、解答問題、聯絡出席者、準備活動物資等。首先，我一定要多謝我的拍擋fufu的幫忙。

今次活動有大概30人參與，本身我只想邀請20至25個人，但因為反應熱烈，我決定將名額調到30個人，希望大家張就一下。

fufu和我一開始簡單介紹聚會，講解聚會規則，然後先自我介紹。一開始，我邀請了＠Nuitdetokyo做個緊縛的分享，而他最後決定分享明智伝鬼的高手小手綁。

To be honest, at first, I was a bit worried about him showing a takate kote as most people at the rope gatherings were beginners. However, after some deep thought, I thought maybe it's a good idea as the TK incorporated a lot of important rope skills and also, I believe that it would be good for people to have some basic idea of what it should be like - the important details. I see a lot of people attempting to do a TK but a lot of times, even though they succeed in tying the pattern, all the important details (tension/frictions/rope placement) are neglected and so a lot of people, even the more experienced rope tops, might get the takate kote wrong. So I think it would be a good opportunity for people to understand more about it - even if they cannot do everything or remember everything right - they still have an idea of what it should be like. I was @Nuidetokyo's demo bottom for the night - we did some step by step demonstration followed by one-to-one coaching/feedback/learning. It's really good to see that everyone's practising and people trying to help out each other!

老實說，因為許多出席者都是新手，一開始我也有點擔心一開始分享這個綁法會不會太複雜。可是，學一個高手小手綁，其實是包括了許多重要緊縛的技巧。我見到 許多人都做後手縛，但其實見到許多人的綁法都是不正確／不安全的。要做一個好和安全的後手縛，有很多重要的細節，例如張力，手踠繩的鬆度，繩放置的地方， 後面繩如何鎖實等等，有很多比較有經驗的人都會弄錯，所以我相信這次是一個好的機會讓大家理解和學習正確後手縛的方法，即使大家未必能夠於短時間來完全熟 悉後手縛，至少可以明白基本原理，做個初步的認識。當日，我是@Nuidetokyo的被綁者（用來做講解），我們一起逐步講解後手綁，大家一起跟著綁， 我們也有再周圍一對一幫助大家。很開心見到大家積極練習，互相幫助。

At the end of the sharing by, @Nuitdetokyo quickly showed everyone a basic suspension on @Komaru (just to show that the TK's safe for suspension).

最後，Nuitdetokyo很快的在小丸做了一個吊縛，講解後手縛的安全性。

Rope work: Nuidetokyo

Model: Komaru

Photography: Steve

After the sharing, it's time for open practice. I decided to practice my self suspension and transitions in the air. I seldom have the chance to do self suspension - I only do it when there are spotters and people who can give me feedback. I decided to do a full suspension with a chest harness. Self suspension's quite challenging to me. I find that it's a lot easier to tie on another person. Due to my weight (hell I am heavy) so I have to make sure that I tie something comfy and relatively load bearing so I can stay up in the air for longer. It also requires a lot of strength in the core muscles (and I only have fat unfortunately) so it's really tiring for me...but it's fun!

分享完畢後，就是大家練習的時間。我決定練習自吊和在空中轉姿勢，自吊對於我來說是十分有難度的（因為我很重嘛哈哈），所以我要做個可以受到多一點力的綁法，自吊亦需要速度，身體（特別腰）亦要用很多的力量。

Rope work and model: subay

Spotters: Nuitdetokyo and fufu

Photography: Steve

@Nai kindly asked @Nuitdetokyo if he could tie her - and this is what happened - a teppou suspension and some spinning (@Nai likes spinning A LOT) followed by gagging and blindfolding by ropes.

然後Nuitdetokyo在Nai身上做了個Teppou（像後手拿著槍的姿勢）的吊縛，在空中轉動。

Rope work: Nuidetokyo

Model: Nai

Photography: Steve


人交流，只是在分享時幫助過幾位，招呼不到，請見諒：P

最後，多謝各位的幫助－攝影師，大人借出繩，各位朋友的幫忙。當日我們對規則亦十分認真，因為我們希望保護大家安全，希望大家明白。另外，因為名額有限，希望對不能來的幾十位朋友說聲對不起，希望下次你們有機會參與。

多謝大家支持！

- subay

學緊縛，是需要熱誠，要不斷練習，不斷改善，不斷研究。

t takes a lot of passion, dedication and devotion to learn ropes. I spend a lot of time for practice and research. And today, I decided to have some suspension fun and practice with @fufu.

學緊縛，是需要熱誠，要不斷練習，不斷改善，不斷研究。今天，我跟朋友@fufu練習了吊縛。

With a gote as the basis, I started working on different positions and exploring @fufu's body. I started with some floor ties. The first one's a very defensive position that I came up with - it's a struggle between the power/control portrayed by the tie and the inner submission within her. I like the first tie a lot. And then I proceeded to do some suspension - and then tying her poor little toes to the crotch rope - so it's like a little predicament - if she decided to drop her toes, she would feel something hehe. 

我們先做了個後手縛，然後開始嘗試不同的姿勢－從地上的緊縛再到吊縛。第一個是在地上的，姿勢十分防衛，看上來是很有力，很有控制的，但同時間她的心裡間 是多麼的無助，是一個很有趣的對比。然後我們開始做吊縛，其中一個特別的是腳趾是跟股繩綁在一起的，如果她的腳放鬆，那麼股繩就會向上拉：P

When I untied her - there's this beautiful moment - she's all blissed out.

當我解繩的時候，她的樣子是十分幸福的，十分美麗的一刻。

We took a break and had a little chat about the tie. And then we continued to work on the second set. I wanted to do something different so I decided to go for teppou shibari with finger ties (note the use of crotch rope haha) Then I went on to do a partial suspension with her ankles beautifully tied. Then I moved on to a very "welcoming" position (open "M" legs)

我們休息了一會兒，談談剛才的緊縛可以怎樣改善，然後繼續做練習第二種吊縛。我們想試新的吊縛，所以做了個像拿著槍的姿勢，右手是十分幸福的，因為血不能流到那兒，還有是要不斷用力支持右手的力，用在吊縛時是有一定的困難。我首先做了個半吊，然後做了個M字腳的全吊。

We didn't have much time left so we decided to just do something simple. Simple...but painful (please do not try these ties if you don't have any experience - they are VERY dangerous and painful and challenging). We first did an inverted suspension by one wrap on the waist, followed by an inverted suspension by one ankle. 

最後，我們沒有很多時間，所以只會做簡單的吊縛（簡單但十分痛苦的），如果你沒有經驗，請不要亂試，是十分危險，做錯會掉下來，傷頭／頸／脊椎骨等。第一個吊縛是只用腰的一條繩吊上去，然後第二個是用單腳的繩。

I seldom get suspended in Hong Kong as there aren't many people who are experienced enough to do that. So I decided to do a simple self suspension. 

我平常很少機會被吊，因為香港沒有很多有經驗的繩師，所以我最後做了個簡單自吊（倒吊）

Doing suspensions is really challenging and I have so much more to learn - the right tension, placement, transition, the balance of load, how to do the ties quickly and safely etc. I am really thankful that I have such a good rope bottom to practice ropes with and try things out with. We had a really good time - although it's not a rope scene, we still had lots of fun and laughters hehe.

做吊縛真的很困難，我還有很多很多要學習－張力，重量的分佈，繩擺放的最佳位置，如何在空中轉姿勢，如何快而安全地做吊縛等等。我真的十分高興有fufu做我的拍擋，讓我可以有機會練習多些吊縛。雖然今天只是練習，但我們兩人真的很享受過程：）

Rope 緊縛者: subay

Model 被綁者: fufu

Photography 攝影: cindyhk

Ropes at March Party by Kinky Hong Kong (28 March 2015)

Ropes at March Party by Kinky Hong Kong (28 March 2015)

I am a submissive. Despite the fact that I do ropes and tie a lot, I still identify myself as a submissive. People might associate "tying" with "topping" or "dominating" but I do not agree. When I tie someone up, I simply want to get close to them. To caress them. To connect with them. To make them happy. I do not do torture ties for the sake of torturing people - I do it only because my friends enjoy being tortured. So fundamentally speaking - I am still thinking from the perspective of a submissive - I just want people around me to be happy - and that in turn, would make me happy.

But when I go to the parties held by Kinky Hong Kong, I don't really play a lot now (as a submissive). I don't do impact play anymore - anyone can hit me really hard. Anyone can do mean things to me - but it's the mental aspect that's lacking in a lot of scenes and I do not enjoy playing with people I cannot connect well with. So when I go to parties now, I usually do ropes with my friends.

Yesterday, I tied up two wonderful girls. :)

I tied @Nai first. We were just chatting and discussing the new suspension ring and swivel that I got. Not many people can take spinning and swinging when up in the air. It's even harder to take when the person's suspended inverted. I personally can take it but I do not enjoy it as I have motion sickness very easily. But @Nai is a very playful girl and she's really curious to know what it would be like. So we tried it out by doing an inverted suspension with hip harness. She looked amazing up in the air - I enjoyed spinning her, and stopping her, and holding her steady in my embrace, and giving her the caress that she deserves.

Ropes 緊縛者: subay

Model 被綁者: Nai

Photography 攝影: VelmaVoluptuary

Then I had some rope fun with @V. We planned a bit ahead for the scene. I decided to go for the sensual way. It's the first time that I tied her so I wanted her to feel my ropes and be comfortable first. I went for a gote, and proceeded to tie her hair, and mouth, and finally her eyes. We also did a partial suspension/stretchy ties I enjoyed how much she enjoyed being ropes - when she's completely in my arms, led by me, feeling everything that I gave her - that's a really beautiful gift.